I have been thinking on the subject of “church” for quite some time now….but the class I teach on Sunday night has precipitated an in-depth study into church and (most recently) a re-read of a great book, Nine Marks of a Healthy Church.
One of the questions I have been wrestling with relates to the “psychology” involved with a church that is changing.
Many pastors struggle with “change” at a church. It is difficult to “sell” change to a congregation and many guys get frustrated and leave. Change though, is necessary for a church to survive (ask any church which has a median age of 65+ today…in ten years if you can still find them). It is also necessary for a church to thrive.
I personally have a great deal of faith in the church. I think the church in America is still viable. I do not see it as it is seen in a great number of European cities. I think a lot of hope still exists for the church…and with proper adjustments…it can truly magnify the Name of Jesus on a wide scale basis.
So, as I have been considering the psychology of a church…I have been acutely aware that many folks in churches are resistant to change. They don’t like it. They resist it. They hate it. They want to turn back from in…even if it means using a filet knife in creative ways on the one bringing the change about. Why?
No one wants to go back to 3 channels on their TV. No one wants to have dirt roads to travel on in cities or to be without a cell phone (ok…maybe the cell phone.) The reason is, I THINK, because we (leaders) have not connected the reality of change with its purpose. We simply want to change and want people to embrace change…and we fail to focus on the reason for change.
A church changes (or if you will allow me) focuses on being INTENTIONALLY MISSIONAL in order to more effectively communicate the gospel. A church seeks to use relevant forms of music in worship to connect the dots for those in the assembly who do not yet know Jesus. A true worshipper can worship Jesus with any form of music (and I might argue…in nearly any language), but an outsider needs help connecting the dots. This relevance is part of the mission, it in not the mission.
I read this AM an article in a series by Dr. Ed Stetzer…one of the thinkers and practitioners that I learn from. Here is an excerpt:
Trouble starts with cultural relevance when we misunderstand its importance. Sometimes we believe being relevant means being missional, but it doesn’t. The truth is we can be culturally relevant and ultimately go nowhere in helping people know Jesus or serving Him on mission. Relevance is an implication of mission, and a tool for the mission, but it is not the goal of the mission. Making disciples through the spread of the gospel is the goal. If cultural relevance is our goal, the Gospel is demoted and we lose confidence in its transforming power and necessity.
That is a telling quote and makes me want to say, “Get out of my head, Ed!”
We are to be relevant because it furthers the gospel. We ought to build bridges in our city because it furthers the gospel. We ought to help people with practical studies on marriage, finance, and child-rearing because it connects the dots and demonstrates that there is a God who loves them and has already provided for them…and will bless their marriages and finances when they realize that He alone is entitled to Lordship!
Apart from the gospel enterprise though…change is ridiculous. If we go through the pain of change simply to be different and never seek to win our neighbors, countrymen, and global citizenry to Christ…we are ultimately ignorant of what is truly important.
What should we do? Proclaim the gospel in culturally relevant ways.
What should we not do? Delay the change. (I say delay…because for a church to refuse to change continuously…is for a church to delay the change for about 50 years.) What will eventually happen however, is the church will die and someone will turn the building into a liquor store, and antique shop, or an office building…and then change will come.
I encourage you to read Ed’s Article in its entirety here…and then share your thoughts with me. I truly am interested in what you think.