Guys, this is a great post. I found it to be deeply thought provoking about the critics I seek to please and those that really matter. Admittedly, I seek to please people (many times) whose opinions don’t really matter greatly in the big picture. Let me offer an example or two:
In the church, there are always people who have opinions and vocalize them about decisions, strategy, or vision. Sometimes though, the loudest of these voices speaking about why the new “outreach strategy” won’t work…are those who are not doing outreach of any sort anyway. The ones who are (doing evangelism) may chime in with criticism, but usually shape their comments around the experience they are presently having and how the new direction may affect their current efforts. (I get “suggestions” all the time from people who are consumers and not producers…who sit in a pew watching things happen and then critique efforts to make things happen.)
When you take it outside the walls of a church…consider your business. Do you try to gain the approval of the employee down the hall or the supervisor who entrusted a task to you? Do you value the input of the influencer or the noisy person? There may come a time when you cannot please both. Which critic will you listen to?
Truthfully…as a general rule…the noisier a person is, the less real influence they have. That is why they are being noisy…because very few people are listening to them and they think that by being louder, their audience will grow.
We would do well, at times, to place our greatest efforts toward those who are actually working to fulfill the mission, rather than those who simply want to sit and opine about their perspective on it.
Love to hear your thoughts. (Yes, I know it is provacative. I am not seeking a fight…just to provoke honest thought.) Read Seth’s post…it is the real point. Then stop back by to share your thoughts. Thanks!