What I really want as a pastor for the church I lead: 5 things that drive me and inform my leadership.
To define what it is a pastor wants is too broad and too selfish. To describe what Jesus wants can come across too philosophical. As I reflect on the last three years of leading Calvary, I have a list of things that make me proud (in a good way), a number of things I wish I could do differently (now that I know better), and a couple of things that I truly regret.
When people try to define what a pastor is…it is often confused with what a pastor does.
- A pastor is a preacher. In fact, in most places, he is (rightfully) respected as the chief teacher.
- A pastor is a counselor. This means that he is often consulted with or approached when things are going incredibly wrong in any number of situations…from relationships to finances, to which job a person should choose. The implication is not that he is all wise; rather, it is that he is adept at understanding God’s Word as instructive and authoritative and that he is walking in a vibrant and healthy relationship with God.
- A pastor is a mediator. He often uses discernment (whether it is his strongest gift or not) to help folks resolve tensions and see things from a (typically) different perspective.
- A pastor is a leader. Like it or not, win or lose, a pastor is charged by God to lead a congregation of God’s people to embrace God’s heart, purpose, and mission. He must find a way to cast vision, help others understand the vision, and embrace it as God’s will for the church. He must also be one who shepherds that vision and keeps the congregation true to it, even when some do not embrace it or resist it by seeking to change the course of the church to reflect their personal beliefs as the best direction.
These are all things that a pastor does. It is not who he is. Who he is…is a sinner who is saved by the grace of God. He is a man with passions and desires, strengths and weaknesses. He is a guy who gets it “wrong” now and again (and far too often for his own liking). He is a person who was chosen by God for the task, not because of his strengths, but because of his weaknesses (1 Cor 1:26-31). He is a man who desires to be loved and liked. He desires acceptance and affirmation. He finds himself, often times, torn between his loyalty to God and His calling…and the desire within. He also feels a great responsibility to God in His charge to lead God’s people in God’s mission…to be accomplished God’s way.
What I want for the church I lead is akin to what I see the church designed to be (in God’s economy), and where I see the church in the vision of her “down the road.” If, as a pastor, I am true to that vision, then I will want (and thus lead) the church to move in that direction and embrace what is necessary to become that church.
Let me also say that some would assert that a pastor does not get to lead a church in a direction he chooses. They would assert that a church has its own will and that a church determines its own course and destiny. While there are elements of this that are true…if it were completely true, then a pastor would not be a visionary or leader, but an implementor of an expressed will of the people alone. I believe that God specifically calls and employs men as pastors as His instrument to accomplish His purpose for the church (While I can defend this biblically, the time and space goals that I have for this letter won’t permit me to do so here.)
If I could articulate the five things that I want for the church I lead, knowing that these five things direct my leadership, this is what they would be:
- I want to lead a church of missionaries who see themselves as divinely assigned by God to the task of reaching their culture with the gospel of Jesus Christ.
- I want to lead a church that functions with urgency…as if a great hurricane were “bearing down” on them.
- I want to lead a church that is unsatisfied with the status quo. The “way we’ve always done it” and “this is about as good as we can expect” should never be acceptable phrases. We serve a powerful and creative God who is constantly at work demonstrating His own glory to the world.
- I want to lead a church that values commitment. Loving God takes commitment. Loving others takes commitment. We are a church that is committed to one another and committed to the Great Commission.
- I want to lead a church that lives passionately, gives sacrificially, and loves unconditionally. When the sun sets on the chapter of our lives, we need to know that we held nothing back…we laid it all on the line…we made a difference.
When you read a statement of desires like this…it would be easy enough to want to disengage from it. This is not for those who desire comfort, security, or familiarity…it is for those who desire to IMPACT to world and INFLUENCE culture for God.
Over the next few days, I want to lay out some thoughts on each of these five things.
I want to lead a church of missionaries who see themselves as divinely assigned by God to the task of reaching their culture with the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Thinking of ourselves as “missionaries” in the culture we live in stems from (among other places) the Great Commission. “ All authority has been give to [Jesus], in heaven and on earth. [As you] Go, therefore, make disciples of all [people groups], baptizing them in the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, and teach them to observe all things that I have commanded you” (author’s translation, Matthew 28:18-20). If we were called to simply proclaim the gospel, we could accomplish that in a number of ways. Our calling though is to make disciples (fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ) of all people groups. This indicates that we must become adept at understand the cultures of the people we seek to reach and then communicate in a manner that connects for them. Our communication/ influence must be ongoing since no one makes a singular decision to become a “fully devoted follower of Christ”…and then it is so. Becoming such a follower is an ongoing process of exposure to God’s truth, overcoming obstacles/objections, acceptance by faith—which results in acting on our decisions, then doing it again.
No missionary could travel to a village in the interior of India, pull out an English Bible, declare the gospel in English, use analogies from experiences in Houston, Texas and reasonably expect that anyone in the village has a clue what he said or how it applies. If transmitting the information were enough (without respect to context, culture, or language), we could accomplish the Great Commission in a very short window of time with a fraction of the budget. We know though, that the gospel is intended to be shared through a witness who contextualizes the message and helps a person embrace its implications.
In a post-churched culture in the US, every Christ-follower must embrace the missionary mandate and mindset…accepting that just because we share a common language dialect (in some cases), there are still cultural barriers that must be negotiated. Values are different. Approaches are different. People are different. As such, the effective church must see itself as a community of men and women who intentionally engage the cultural differences as missionaries in the culture and seek to reconcile folks in the culture with a Holy God in their context.
More tomorrow…but I would love to hear your thoughts on this first desire…